How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 05:47
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
That's it for today.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Does a person with schizophrenia hear voices?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How do I seduce my sister? (I am an Indian) I want to have sex with her.?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Why are people nowadays so into anal sex?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
If freedom of speech is absolute, how come it's not applied for private spaces and for the Internet?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Can you summarize season 1 of "The Acolyte"?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Which scene is considered the most difficult to watch in each of Quentin Tarantino's movies?
Hangs out with loser friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Do not set goals—set systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
I have the power to talk to aliens through using telepathy. Why do people think I'm crazy?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Why do British people always write "xxx" after their names?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
How do I cope with the fact that I will never have a girlfriend?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?
Does not procrastinate.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What I need from you?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Ask yourself: